Most of the stress in moving comes from compressing a month of work into the last three
days. Almost nothing here is difficult; it is just a lot of small tasks, and doing them early
is the whole trick.
A rough moving checklist
Four weeks out. Set the budget, decide movers or DIY, and start packing
anything you will not need before the move - books, off-season clothes, decorations, the
garage.
Three weeks out. Declutter properly. Every box you do not pack is one you
do not carry, and if you are paying movers by weight it is money.
Two weeks out. Change your address, transfer utilities, book a parking
permit or lift if you need one, and confirm the movers in writing.
One week out. Pack everything except the kitchen and daily essentials.
Run down the fridge and freezer rather than trying to transport food.
The last two days. Kitchen, bedding, toiletries. Pack the essentials tote
last and put it in your own car, not the truck.
How to pack so unpacking is not worse
Colour-code by room. A roll of coloured tape per room, a strip on every box, and a matching
strip on the door frame at the new place. Movers then do not have to ask where anything goes,
and neither do you.
Write the contents on the side of the box, not the top. Once boxes are stacked you cannot
read the tops.
Small heavy things in small boxes, large light things in large boxes. A book box should be
liftable with one hand under it. Overpacked boxes split at the bottom, always over something
you care about.
The essentials tote
One box or bag that does not go in the truck: phone chargers, medication, a change of
clothes each, toilet roll, soap, a towel, basic tools, scissors, coffee and whatever makes it
in the morning. Keep it with you.
This is the single item people wish they had packed, because the alternative is opening
fourteen boxes at midnight to find a toothbrush.
Things worth doing that nobody mentions
Photograph the back of your TV and anything else with cables before you unplug it.
Reassembly stops being a puzzle.
Use suitcases for books. They have wheels; boxes do not.
Leave clothes on their hangers and pull a garbage bag up over them from the bottom. It
takes seconds and they hang straight back up.
Keep jewellery, documents and anything irreplaceable in your own car. Not because movers
are dishonest, but because a box in a truck is a box you cannot check on.
Movers cannot legally take paint, propane, petrol or aerosols. Deal with those separately
rather than discovering it on the day.
Movers or do it yourself
The honest line is distance and stairs. A local move on one floor with a few friends and a
van is fine. A long-distance move, a third-floor walk-up, or anything involving a piano is
where hiring stops being a luxury.
Get three written quotes and check they include stairs, long carries and packing materials,
because those are where day-of surprises come from.